Top Twelve Questions To Ask Before Marriage

9. How do you think we should share the household chores?

This is another sticky point in many marriages. Answering this question honestly, will help you uncover beliefs you may have about how household chores should be handled in marriage. Often those beliefs are based on what you saw your parents or others doing. The important thing to remember is that you do not have to be governed by your past. You can choose to work this out so that you both feel comfortable with the results.

Sharing household chores can bring you closer together as a couple and sidestep the resentment that builds up when one of you feels overburdened.